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My life have changed from a corporate world to the dirty world of gas…

Flabby…

People say that breastfeeding makes you lose weight. It is true. 6 months post-pregnancy, there is almost a certainty that you’ll go back to your pre-pregnancy weight. What people don’t tell you is that you’ll become flabby – in other words, you need to exercise to get a firm shape. Flabby has become the “in-thing” to me these days. I hate this flabbiness, whenever I look at it, I can see the voids that are left by all those fats. Nasty! And let’s not go to the stretch mark thingy, I don’t really know how they all will go away… Urgh…

On another note, excuse my English, I’m not sure if flabby is even a word.

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I was never a fan of PPSMI (Pengajaran & Pembelajaran Sains & Matematik dalam bahasa Inggeris). You know why? Because I believe my English quality for Malaysians is above average. And still I need a lot of improvement. It makes me wonder how an average can survive. Dr. M is right, English is important because it is the language of science and technology and it is used as the medium of communication in international journals. But honestly, an average person does not read journals, so why bother having them struggle learning something difficult in English when we all barely survive doing it in our mothers’ tongue. Even English teachers struggle to master English, let alone Math & Science teachers. If the crust and core of the problem has not been resolved, then why introduce a new thing. Before we have very strong education system in Math & Science, I don’t think it’s worth trying.

Anyway, this is old story. Why bother? Well I think I want to make a point. The way I see it is Malaysia’s main problem is we don’t like to read (yours truly included). And the education system is not really encouraging us to read. I remember I was told to write numerous book summary during my high school days. Being the lazy person that I am, I will pick a book with a good summary at the back, then copy it… Not like the teacher will ever notice. I don’t know if she ever noticed (she may not even read it, lol). Anyhow, I think my English improved only cause I went to college in the states, otherwise, God knows how good/bad my English can be. And honestly, I have friends who did not study abroad but their English proficiency is better than me. You know why? Because they read, and they are well read.

In conclusion, IMO, to solve our English quality misery. We have to READ. And our education system has to encourage us to do so and capable. It’s really basic, but it’s not easy. This is just an opinion.

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Why do I say “This is just an opinion?” Because I don’t want people to come here and put comments on my opinion and stuff. Honestly, I’m not trying to critisize what the government has done or will do or what is good or bad. I’m just stating an opinion, everyone has one…

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Holidays are always short!

One not so nice thing about living in another island that your family & friends is when holiday comes, your schedule is so damn packed. One week of raya holiday should be enough for most people, but for us, one week is filled with too many activities. Not only we have to rush here and there to meet family & friends, we also need to go to the mall to get stuffs from our list. Insyaallah, next raya we’re planning to be back for at least 2 weeks.

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I’ve been blessed with living so close to the airport in the Peninsular. Since I moved here, traveling back to KL is such a long journey. We need to leave home at least 3 hours before our flight to make sure that we arrive at the airport on time. And for the return leg, once we touch down, we have another 1++ hour of journey before we reach home. Once we reach home, we’re all exhausted. Now Hilmy is a part of the equation, things are more challenging, having to make sure that he is well fed along the way and he’s not so good mood once in a while. Ah yes, our luggage… my oh my… it’s a lot more. More of Hilmy’s stuff, his stroller, his car seat… Aiyahhh headache ok. Can’t imagine someone who travels alone with a baby. You’re a supermom/dad!

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I miss the Peninsular. I wanna go home… Someone asked me whether I wanna stay here for a long time and I said no. Most people thought that I find Brunei boring because there’s no “life” here. To be honest, I got over the boredom. At some point, I figured that I don’t mind the slow life at all. Not like I’ve been enjoying “life” in KL anyway. I barely go to KL except for work. It’s just that I don’t feel belong here and I just don’t fit so well to the equation. Sometimes, I can be annoyed with their accent. It’s not their fault – it’s just me. I just fit well in Peninsular, no matter how much I curse it each day when I was there. The truth is, there’s no place like home… I know, it’s just some weird thing that no one can understand.

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Honestly, who reads this blog anyway? This actually does not qualify as one by my standard. LOL. Anyhoo, if you come across this and before it is too late… I wish you “Selamat Hari Raya and Maaf Zahir Batin.” Sorry I don’t send smses or emails to wish you cause when I do send such, I feel that the thought and the meaning is lost (I mean to reply to some smses, but was too busy, and therefore I’m so sorry). Saying it out loud personally is more meaningful. Yet, I know I didn’t get the chance to see most of my friends during my short stint in KL this year… So if I didn’t see you, this is my wish for you, hope we get to meet during eid next year…

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