Request, request, request…

I’m back in my hometown. It’s almost a week and I’m already bored. Actually, I’m more lazy than bored. I have few projects in mind especially to do some revamping in my room to fit in the baby’s crib and baby’s stuff. At the same time I want to move the study table etc so I can start using the computer in my room. Other than that, not much to do.

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Honestly, I’m sick of invitations or requests in Facebook.  Stuff like XXX invites you to join YYY quiz etc.  Blearghhhhhh… I’ve got tonnes of them – once in a while, I’ll do cleaning up to clear the requests because it’s just annoying to see them on my main page.  I figured most folks who run those applications, just invite all of their friends to use them as well – if you’re one of them, please stop!  It does annoy people who barely run any applications on facebook.

As addictive as facebook can be, I think I’ve got other things to do with my life.  I can’t imagine those folks who upload their photos ever so often.  On top of that, they also have time to comment at their friends’ photos (selalu pulak tu).  I do too, but I guess it’s never too often.  I know I know internet is so mobile now and you can use blackberry to upload your photos and what nots.  But I don’t know if it’s really necessary.  It seems like the endless connection with internet consumes our lives – I don’t really like the idea.  But you know, whatever, that’s just how I feel.

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I don’t understand why most people I know assumes that we will be leaving my baby to my parents once he/she is born.  To be frank, we never plan to have a baby so soon; but since I got pregnant anyway, we are responsible to take care of the baby.  So we’re doing whatever we can to have the baby in our care.  The process is not easy, and we have to spend a lot, but it’s part and parcel of our responsibility, no?  Although it’s a lot of stress and sacrifice, alhamdulillah, so far our plan is going well.  We are trying our best, and insyaallah, it’ll all go well.

Not to say that I’m against other people who left their child/children to their parents’ care.  Every marriage have their own hardships and surely there’s a choice everyone has to make.  Something’s gotta give – be it your finance, or being away from your child/children or whatever.  It’s never easy… I’m sure if the circumstance allows, every parents would want to spend every single second with their children cause we never want to miss any single precious moment.

What I don’t like about it is, assumptions that people make – doesn’t mean that we live in another island, leaving our child with my parents is our first choice!

Just like people always say, don’t ASSUME, or you’ll make an ASS out of U and ME.

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I’ve got more to say (as always), but I’ll save it for later (more like I’m already lazy to type).  We’ll see if I get there.

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